When people show you who they are, believe them the first time. Why must you be shown 29 times before you can see who they really are? Why can’t you get it the first time? (Maya Angelou)

If your man were to fall in love with someone else, what would you do?

I would let him go. You can't control people you love. You can't control who you fall in love with. You could be cursed with falling in love with somebody who loves someone else. But if you can't have love, it doesn't mean he shouldn't have it either. I believe people who love each other should be together. If there's no love, they should not be together. If you love someone and he loves someone else. You may not be able to control your emotions, you may cry, cry and cry. But you can't hold on to someone who is in love with someone else. What's the point? He's not happy, and you will not be happy. When you really love someone you don't want them to be miserable. Forget them, will you be happy? the person will remain sour faced. And he will always blame you for snatching away his love from you. There will be resentment.